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Category Archives: Relationships

Things to Consider Before Pick Online Dating Services

# One of the most important factors would be the kind of dating site that you are choosing. Usually there are paid and free dating sites and are chosen by people depending upon their seriousness for searching for a dating partner. Paid dating services are usually chosen by providers that are searching for serious relationships and more often a lifetime partner. However, free online service can be chosen by any of these daters.

# Another important factor would be choosing a provider according to their popularity in the domain. There can be two reasons for choosing a popular online dating site in which the first one can be to establish reliability as a dating site would only be popular if it is delivering satisfactory services that are being liked by a huge crowd of people. Another reason of choosing a popular site increases the chances of finding a preferred dating partner as a popular site attracts a large number of people and hence people of almost all types can be easily find in these sites.

# In order to ensure that you are choosing one of the best online dating services, you can simply refer to some of the client reviews that are published on the chosen provider’s website that gives you an idea on the type of services that you can expect from the chosen provider. Moreover, you can also refer to a few case studies, which are also published on the provider’s website and help you in a better selection process.

All about Texting Girls

So what are the purposes of texting?

  1. Men are trying to start a connection between them and girls.
  2. Men simply want to stay in touch while they see their girl next time.
  3. Men are texting girls to lift bring their relationship to the point, where they can easily start flirting.

But before we start talking about messages, I would like to talk a little bit about some serious mistakes that men often make when texting girls.

  1. Sense-less messages that bear no meaning. Messages like “how’s going?” or “what’s up” are just the same messages as your target girl gets every day from many other guys that target her, so why would your message be one to answer?
  2. If you send messages every hour, then trust me, the girl will never be waiting for your message, because she will be sure, that you are going to write soon again. There is no intrigue in your actions, if you are predictable.
  3. And the very last mistake is when a guy tries to have a conversation over the messages, but through the live talk. Messages are not created for people to get to know each other.

Every time, when you send her a message, there is to be a part of fun and flirtatiousness. Forget about messages, that don’t show who you are. But don’t give out to much of yourself, because you will lose the intrigue.

Every woman wants a man that she will love to spend time with, so if your start of relationship was a boring message, that she even forgot to answer, you better be doing something else…

Here are the three main rules, of how men should be texting girls.

  1. The message must contain value. What do I mean by that? Try to write messages, that a girl wouldn’t have to answer, but still would do it. How? How about… “I was working and for some reason you popped up in my head, so just wanted to say hi”. It gives her desire to shoot you back, cause you are being nice with her, even during the time you work. Of course, you’ve been thinking about her all day long, but make her to feel like wasn’t thinking about her at all.
  2. Do short messages. If you write long messages, you are becoming predictable, so try to always give her something like a movie trailer, so she would be inpatient to watch the rest of it.
  3. Have you ever waited for her answer to your message for few hours? Well…lots of men did… You know why? There were no roller coaster effect in you messages. If you normally answer back within few minutes, it makes you to be predictable. So try to not answer the message right away, wait for 20 minutes. Sometimes even one hour or one day would be good, because you want to remain vogue and leave her wondering.

So again, don’t answer every question they ask, try to flirt, be unpredictable, leave the sweetest moments of your chats for face to face meetings and stop being boring in your messages.

Why Have True Girlfriend is Difficult?

Everyone is in search of someone whom you can trust and share your feelings, someone that can also be your best friend and likes what you like, someone who understands and will not judge you all the time, someone to spend every day with, mess around with. You would have a list of the qualities that you want in her. There can be certain qualities which you search for your girlfriend is:

  • Beautiful
  • Sensitive
  • Caring
  • Smart
  • Loyal

These qualities are really very difficult to found but only girl having these qualities does not help to make a good relationship. Boys should also have some guts.

If you think that you haven’t met someone with these quality and you are waiting for the one very special whom you deserve then there are certain qualities which is needed and help you to get a girlfriend.

What women have primarily referred is the financial status of a man because high status males have a greater ability to protect in every situation.

There are some secondary qualities which are most important and not insignificant. These are:

  • Friendly : He will realize that the key to a girl’s heart is not jewelry, but him having a healthy relationship with her best friends.
  • Surprising : He will be surprising you, even when it is no extraordinary occasion, but not normally enough that these surprises are expected.
  • Good sense of Humor : Once in a while, after months or years of being together, he goes into an entire new period of concentrated kind gestures, gifts, and fun dates.
  • Importance : Even in busy schedules he will have to make the time for you.
  • Good listener: A good boyfriend is an active listener, meaning he asks questions and does not just sit there, waiting for his turn to speak, respect her opinions.
  • Possessiveness : He has a small jealous streak, to let you know he cares about you, but not have a possessive personality over you.
  • Acceptance : He will accept you for all your quirks and loving the cute ones that defines you as who you are.
  • He calls you beautiful rather than hot and sexy, and truly knows that beauty is the combination of physical and personality appeal, rather than hot which is simply raw physical appeal.
  • Honesty : He should be honest with you, even when the answer to the questions you asked, is going to hurt.
  • Supportive : He will give you the moral support you may need from time to time.
  • Mature : He is of the maturity to be able to realize, that he does have faults and tries to be a better man.
  • Finally but not the last, he should be able to make you feel like the perfect girlfriend.

These above are some of the qualities which make a perfect boyfriend – girlfriend relationship. You just need to indicate that you are looking for more than a friendship and so there isn’t any awkward misunderstanding. Ultimately you can find a girlfriend, just remember to be yourself or the best version of yourself and do not act too desperate or needy in the initial stages.

Safe Online Dating Tips

# Your basic safety lesson in online dating starts from your dating profile itself. Ensure you never provide your private details such as real name, telephone numbers, street addresses, and so on in your datingsites user profile for absolutely everyone to see. For the initial couple of months you should connect only through the message system that’s available on the matchmaking sites. This private messaging system makes your name and contact information anonymous to make sure that you can get to know the other person without uncovering your real name. As soon as you truly feel you know someone well enough, you may then disclose your personal information and arrange a date. And in case you do end up making contact with a person who turns out to be weird (they’re unfortunately inevitable), your true identity will be secured.

# Once you arrange a date with your dating site friend, remember not to encourage them to come over to your residence for the first date. You should not even ask them to pick you up at your place. Preferably, organize to meet up at the selected place.

# If you have a friend who seems to be also interested in free dating uk sites, you might get together with your friend and organize a double date. This way, you won’t be alone when you meet your new internet friend, and in addition you will have someone to get away with just in case your online date happens to be a bore!

# Never agree to organize your first date in a privately owned or perhaps a hidden spot. You might assume that this is really common information, however you may be amazed (maybe alarmed will probably be a more desirable word) to know that many men and women are nevertheless making this mistake and after that end up in prospectively unsafe scenarios. You need to pick an open and public place for your first date; say a nearby restaurant, or a park. When you choose to go to a different location along with your date, don’t get into the vehicle with them. Get your own vehicle or contact a relative and request to take you there. Of course, all this could sound like far too much trouble, but it’s better to be safe than sorry!

# Refrain from drinking alcoholic drinks on your first date. If you really have to, make certain you order just one or two cocktails and absolutely no more. Request the waiter or the bartender to serve you. In case you have left your alcoholic beverage for any good reason, perhaps to visit the toilet, don’t have the same cocktail once you get back to your table.

# Just before you set off for your date, make sure a good friend or simply a family member is aware of where you’re going and also when to expect you back. If something unfortunate does take place, you at least know that another person will be out trying to find you.

Find Out what You Really Like when Dating

You need to try out different personality types

You may feel like you know exactly what kind of woman would be proper for you to have a relationship with, but sometimes it can be surprising when you find out that what you thought you wanted, isn’t really what you actually like. The more personality types that you actually spend time with, the more likely it is that you are going to figure out exactly what you like and what kind of woman that you want to be around.

You need to try out different places to meet women

In order to really get a taste of different personality types, you need to try out different places to meet women. People tend to go to places where others like them hang out, so if you go to the same bars and clubs, you are probably going to meet women that tend to be kind of similar. That’s not always a bad thing, but if you really want to get a chance to see what kinds of women you would like to date, you might want to try out multiple places to meet women.

You need to be honest with yourself and not feed into what other people think you should like

I was having a conversation with a guy who really did seem to know what kind of woman he liked, but for some reason, he seemed to think that what others thought mattered more than what he thought. What it came down to was that he liked women that were fit and good looking, and there were people in his life that were telling him that was shallow. Well, you know what? Let them think what they want to, because they are not the ones that actually have to date the women that you do. Be honest and admit what kind of women you are attracted to and don’t worry about other people’s opinions so much.


Questions to Text a Guy

What are you doing right now?

It’s simple, it’s straight to the point and it can give you a good idea on what he does with his time. Plus it opens up the possibility for you to let him know what you are up to and if you both happen to not be busy at the time that you are texting him, it can set things up for a chance to meet with one another.

What are you doing this weekend?

This is good for setting up a possible date or hang out with him. If he responds back with something along the lines of “nothing” then you know that you probably have a good chance of being able to talk him into hanging out with you. And you might also find out something interesting about him, because lots of guys get into their hobbies on the weekend and that will help you to find out what he is interested in.

What are you thinking about?

Okay, so some guys might find this to be an annoying question. However, some won’t and for those kinds of guys, you might be able to get to know a little bit more about him if he chooses to tell you what he is thinking about. If he says that he is thinking about you, then that is probably a really good sign that he might like you. So, this isn’t a bad question to text a guy you like.


Asking a Girl Out?, Here Things Not to Do

Become super-invested in her

This is a biggie, both when you’re first starting to know her and when you actually ask her out. When you’re established attraction with her – a must-do before asking any girl out – you want to give off the impression that you could take her or leave her. Girls want a bit of a challenge. In the same way, when asking her out, don’t become too emotionally-invested in her answer of “yes” or “no.” If she feels like it is for you, it’ll put too much pressure on her and she’s get scared.

Be shy

Oh, if girls see a guy who is shy and not very fun, they just can’t wait to hang out with him some more, right? Show her that you’re a fun guy to hang around with, and that if she wanted to, the two of you could have some fun together.

Be a follower

There’s a reason why every girl in high school was attracted to the captain of the football team. Girls love leaders. Show off your leadership ability before asking a girl out by organizing a large event with your friends and inviting her along, or just going to the same party and talking to a whole lot of people. Girls like guys who are comfortable in their own skin.

Ask her to go to a dinner and movie

This has become the worst date possible. Not only is it the most un-original and boring type of date out there, but it suddenly puts this extra legitimacy to the date, which can scare her off for good. Come up with something a bit more original, guys.

Ask her to go to something, sometime

So many guys hate putting themselves out there and specifying a specific thing to do to, so instead of actually asking out a girl they’ll say something like “do you want to do something sometime?” Oh, girls just can’t WAIT to be asked a vague question like that. Come up a plan – which you can use to your benefit, since you can put yourself in the situation that makes you look the best – and ask her to it. If she says “no,” that’s her problem.


Misconceptions About Black Ladies Who Like White Men

….it’s not always what you think it is

There are some things that other people could assume about the African american woman walking alongside a white male. People may perhaps suppose that the simply reason she is with him is meant for the cash he has to offer her. They might also deduce that she can’t find a African american gentleman caused by the reported black male scarcity and the white guy is her next resort. She may be viewed as one in all those black girls who has been injured by African american males so much that she refuses to date African american men anymore. The African american society, particularly, could think that she selected a white man for the reason that she needs to have light skinned babies with curly hair.

Some African american girls possibly will fall into one or more of those different types, but it is more universal that the African american woman finds a indisputable connection with a white male who at least shares her interests and clicks with her personality.

Things You Must NOT Do When Approaching a Black Woman

The No-nos

Whether you meet her on the street or on an Online Dating Site remain the following in mind.

Don’t come near her with any line resembling, “Are you into white guys?” African american females find that irritating as well as it drips with insecurity as it says that you are only waiting to be rejected based on your face color rather than relying on what you have to proffer.

Do not make too much remarks about her body or supposed “black traits” upon first meeting. One thing black females worry about when it comes to interracial dating is being used as a fetish or test.

Don’t guess that she will be impressed that you love rap music or worship President Obama. She is an individual and might not be into hip hop. She might even be a Republican. Thus be yourself with do not attempt to show anything more than that you are a good man for her.

Tips to Flirt with Girls

If a girl is talking to you, then she’s interested. Plain and simple. But if you’re not going to show interest in her by flirting with her, then she’s just going to assume you have a girlfriend or are just not that into her, and she’s going to find someone who is.

How Do You Flirt?

So, enough about why flirting with girls is important. Now I’m going to show you how to flirt with women.

There are four keys to keep in mind:

  • Use body language to assist your flirting.
  • Make sure to tease her for a bit.
  • Use funny and playful banter to keep her interest.
  • Use people-watching as a way to build a bond between the two of you.

These four points, and many more, are detailed further in my free 27-page document entitled “Make Small Talk Sexy.” It will show you just how to use these four keys and what other tools in your toolshed you have at your disposal to make your flirting lines more effective. It will allow you to take a conversation that is boring and going nowhere, and turn it into a sexy act of flirting within seconds.

So don’t be that guy left at the bar alone again while she ends up going home with someone else. (Who, really, is just better at flirting with girls than you are.) Learn how to flirt by heading here and learning more information about the product.

Undesirables You might Find in a Chat Online


Often encountered by the younger aficionados of chat online sites, these douchebags just want to pretend they’re great when they’re not. You might see them spouting chat online about how rich their dad is, how high they can jump on their skateboard and the hotness of the girlfriend who lives out of town who nobody has ever seen. Deflate them by saying you spoke to their mom and none of it was true.


When you chat online you will often find these tricky customers. There are different types but the common theme is that they’re looking for something. Some of them want sex and think a chat online site is the best place to find it. Airbrushed, unrealistic profile photos are usually a pretty good sign. Try copying the image and putting it through Google image search. Sometimes all they want is bank details so don’t give these out online.

Desperate Losers

This specimen can be encountered by people of any age or culture while they chat online using social networks. That guy who you added as a friend for a reason you can’t remember who has nothing better to do than start an inane conversation with you. Perhaps that girl who you dated for a short time about three years ago who suddenly wants to chat online with you now she is single and nobody wants her anymore? Dismiss with a curt ‘block’.

Drunken People

You might not always want to avoid this, especially if you have had a few beers yourself. Drunk people can be very entertaining when they chat online so even if you’re sober you might want to humour them for five minutes or so. But their poor grammar and constant repetition will no doubt become tiring. If you want to throw them off, tell them you’re coming over with a couple of six-packs and some reefer.