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Asking a Girl Out?, Here Things Not to Do

Become super-invested in her

This is a biggie, both when you’re first starting to know her and when you actually ask her out. When you’re established attraction with her – a must-do before asking any girl out – you want to give off the impression that you could take her or leave her. Girls want a bit of a challenge. In the same way, when asking her out, don’t become too emotionally-invested in her answer of “yes” or “no.” If she feels like it is for you, it’ll put too much pressure on her and she’s get scared.

Be shy

Oh, if girls see a guy who is shy and not very fun, they just can’t wait to hang out with him some more, right? Show her that you’re a fun guy to hang around with, and that if she wanted to, the two of you could have some fun together.

Be a follower

There’s a reason why every girl in high school was attracted to the captain of the football team. Girls love leaders. Show off your leadership ability before asking a girl out by organizing a large event with your friends and inviting her along, or just going to the same party and talking to a whole lot of people. Girls like guys who are comfortable in their own skin.

Ask her to go to a dinner and movie

This has become the worst date possible. Not only is it the most un-original and boring type of date out there, but it suddenly puts this extra legitimacy to the date, which can scare her off for good. Come up with something a bit more original, guys.

Ask her to go to something, sometime

So many guys hate putting themselves out there and specifying a specific thing to do to, so instead of actually asking out a girl they’ll say something like “do you want to do something sometime?” Oh, girls just can’t WAIT to be asked a vague question like that. Come up a plan – which you can use to your benefit, since you can put yourself in the situation that makes you look the best – and ask her to it. If she says “no,” that’s her problem.